3rd base dating
On the other hand, I find it troubling that your friend wants to go to 3rd base without knowing what it is exactly.How can she genuinely want something when she doesn’t know what’s involved? But even aside from that, safer sex has to do with communication.I like however the comparison between age and a base limit.– I try to raise my sons on the idea that sex is a realm of personal responsibility we must face as adults, whether or not you are one.
In short, don’t run the bases just to run the bases.You have all the time in the world to get that contract signed.There’s no definite, universal definition for the bases. As a general guideline, I’d say: Base 1 Kissing Base 2 Making out with clothes (or with most clothes on anyway, hands above or below clothes) Base 3 Making out without clothes (or without most clothes, hands going in very intimate places, possible oral sex, orgasm) There’s also no hard-and-fast age for each base.The consequences for error could lead to disease, unwanted pregnancy, abortion.
I don’t try to scare them, I want them to grasp the association between choosing under duress (temptation) and consequence.Your going to have to know yourself well enough to know what you are going to do, and be responsible enough to face the consequences. Instead I tell them that this is the ultimate puzzle anyone must solve.